How many times have you felt disappointed in your boyfriend? Or thought about breaking up with him because of his little mistakes? And did I mention that we hate the word ‘perfect’? Simply because no one is. Humans are bound to make mistakes and just to inform you, your boyfriend is a human. Generally, men are not the “knights in shining armor”. They’re just not the Romeo to your Juliet nor the Jack to your Rose. Save that romantic notion for the movies because the truth is, girls, don’t run the world. Step out of the fantasies and get into the reality!
The notion that the society has with men is that they are strong and independent whereas to them it means expressing no emotion and pain. They have this strong avoidance of vulnerability because of that strong fear that they will be judged as ‘a pussy’. But just like how a human being is, men also have emotions. They just don’t tend to express themselves as much as women do and this gives the women no right to abuse that.
Women should learn what to expect and demand from their partner because mind you, your boyfriend also has his own life. He has his own family and has his own priorities in life. Women should quit expecting and start accepting. Now don’t get me wrong, this is not some sort of a Pro-men article. This is essentially giving them a chance to demand what they also need.
First things come first. We know how relationships work and ‘doubting’ is like building up a big wall to your so-called ‘road to forever’. Men appreciate someone who completely trusts him with everything.
Besides, you made him your boyfriend. So, that means you trust that he loves you. So why doubt?